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Saturday, May 24, 2008

Reflections-

I watched with interest as I journey to work this morning. The train was packed full and people literally squashed against each other for space. The moment one seat became available; at least 3 people would push and shove to occupy the seat. I stood for a few minutes and soon enough, a seat became available, which I grabbed without thinking. As I sat down, I realised that the woman who had been standing next to me held on to her young child. I contemplated offering my seat to her, but I was too lazy and tired to do so. May God forgive me and help me overcome selfishness. Anyway, thankfully, a seat became available. Expecting the woman to grab the seat and carry her child on her lap, she surprised me by not doing just that. She actually gave her child the seat, while she stood, squashed by passengers in the hot stuffy carriage as she struggled to hold on to their heavy bags as well. Her child on the other hand, was comfortable. What mattered to her, was the comfort of her child.

It reminds me of one story I read. A house was burning with fire. The inhabitants of the house, thought they had escaped, until the father realised that his young son was still upstairs, trapped in the fire. The frantic man fought to go and save his child, but was held back by fire-fighters- the blaze was too much and would certainly kill him. The only option was to guide the boy into jumping from the 3 or so storey house. Skilled Fire-fighters called out to he child and asked him to jump. The frightened boy, heard them, but chose to ignore them. As the blaze became hotter, the father of the child became more desperate, so he pulled away from the hold of the firemen and rushed to the foot of the building. With a loud cry, and outstretched arms, he called out to his son and asked him to jump. The boy wasted no time in hurling himself into the open arms of his father.- the only person he knew would not let him fall.
A man took his 5 year old nephew for a walk. As they walked around, the nephew suddenly held out his arms and said in a small shy voice;’ please, carry me uncle’. Surprised at the request, the uncle did so, and continued walking. After a short while, the nephew spoke. ‘Do you know why I asked you to carry me?’ he asked.

The uncle shook his head and the young nephew smiled, saying,’ I was tired and couldn’t really see up the trees as we walked. I know you are strong and tall, so I asked you to carry me, so I could see the trees, without being too tired to walk’.
If we look at the three stories I shared, there is something common- which is, Love and trust. The first story depicts the love of a parent to a child. The second depicts the trust a child has in the voice of his father, the third, the total security of a child in knowing that his weakness did not matter because someone stronger was there right by his side.

Now, let’s sit back and think about our Father in heaven. The Lord has demonstrated the greatest act of love by sending his only son to die for our sins. Jesus, in his love, gave up his life for us, and loved us sooo much that even as he departed the world, he sent the Holy spirit to continually minister to us. The examples I shared in the story are human beings, prone to error and flaw, but if we who are humans, can love our children and family, and cause our children to trust in us, how much more, will the God of the whole universe love, protect and do what He feels is good for you? His word says:

Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten in God's sight. But even the hairs of your head are all counted. Do not be afraid; you are of more value than many sparrows. (Luke 12:6-7)

How amazing is that!! God cares so much that every single hair on our head is numbered!!!
I remember being brought up by my mum as a single parent. Despite this, she did everything in her power to make us comfortable. I don’t remember lacking anything I needed. My school fees were paid on time; there was always food on the table. But, I did notice, that my mother did not change her car, neither did she buy any new clothes for a long long time. One day, she offered an explanation to me. She said, ‘ I wanted to make sure you lacked no good thing, so I denied myself of some pleasures for you’. I can never forget the way I felt that day. This was the same mum that I annoyed almost everyday by my constant complaints and selfish demands. But guess what? She doesn’t even love me half as much as God does!!! There’s a verse in Isaiah 49 15-16 which makes my heart beat with wonder: God says:

"Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.

That verse tells us that, mothers actually MAY forget their children, but HE would NEVER forget us, because we are engraved….. Look at your palm for a second. Can you see those lines there; have you ever left those lines at home? I though not!! Lol.. That’s how we are in God’s hands. Like those lines… engraved and embedded in his palms. He takes us everywhere he goes because he cannot cut of his palms- we are a part of God! How wonderful is this God!! You must know today that GOD loves you. God wants to protect you, to heal you, to care for you….. To show you what to do in times of stress. He says further in Isaiah 30:

Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it." (Isaiah 30:21)- That’s the Holy Spirit!!

Beloved, be rest assured that no matter what you are going through, God knows, he hears and he is working it out in your favour. Just do as said below:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

God is bigger than the mother that loves you.

God is mightier than the father that reaches out to you.

God is stronger than the uncle that protects you.

God is more than able to meet your needs. God is so great that He swares by himself--- there is NONE GREATER THAN HIM!! halleluyah!!

Just trust in him...


God bless you and have a favoured week!! And when it manifests, be sure to tell me!!

Yours,
Bimbylads,~~~~ a growing worshipper.

17 comments:

Simi Speaks said...

HE is truly an awesome God.

I recently blogged about how I slept through the night and woke up worried if my baby was ok.. Later on, in my moment of reflection, I realize that while I slept, HE is constantly watching over us.

The love He has for us is beyond our conprehension. We just need to walk in it.

darkelcee said...

This is very true.

Let me talk for myself alone,

Most times i allow challenges and issues to overwhelm me.

I trust God and i still use my instict..

Oh, how i long to trust him completely.

I pray to have the faith/trust of a child who gives totally without any reservation.

Like simi said....

"I need to walk in that love he has for me"

thanks for this blog!

Anonymous said...

i needed this...i spent the better part of work today worrying about how im going to pay my bills and debts, my school fees, save for a house, fix up my credit ratings and pay for law school...i even went as far as thinking that if i didnt get admission into law school, id take off a year from my undergrad studies and think about what i want to do with my life and work throughout...
one verse that gets me through the day is jer 29:11

i keep on telling people about this verse cos it speaks loudly to me, to my worries and senseless insecurities...
God is good..fo' real...

Unbiased said...

O my goodness!! I am bawling. Bimby this is soo true and soo touching. I am going to cry and i'll comment later.

Anonymous said...

Why are you fast forwarding the dates on this blog, Is there any secret to this.


Stay Blessed

Anonymous said...

lol.. i dont understand the blog o.. if i put normal date, it will not show on the blog.. lol.. so I just decided to put future date so that it can show,..!!

Bubétos said...

I feel you!
God is so real and He is right here with us.
Thank you for sharing.

Anonymous said...

Bimbylads, I’m at a point where I hate myself. Everyone thinks I live the perfect life cos I have a great job a second degree, a stable relationship and all the other mundane things of life. Bimby, I’m about to have my second abortion. I feel like a pig, I feel God is against me, Bimby I feel so condemned, foolish depressed, angry extremely stupid, I feel like a hypocrite! For one I have been having premarital sex despite all the warning from church and all the convictions I ignored, two I’m about to commit a second sin. But how will I face my parents who hold very high positions in church, how will I tell my ‘friends’ who think I live the seemingly perfect life, my siblings are not even an option because they look up to me as one good example. What more I can’t even confess to a church member cos I’m a worker and one of the few youth looked upon with high regard. The abortion seems like the best option now. The guy is not ready to settle down I know……. Ah bimby I am sooooooooooo rebellious. Why did I not listen? To crown it all I have been hearing this in my head all for the past couple days: “the wages of sin is death” what if I die during the procedure, what if I’m never able to have kids? Bimby please pray for me if you can. I’m not asking you to validate a sin which I’m knowingly about to commit. Please pray…. I don’t even know what to ask you to pray for…… I know I shouldn’t have, I know we can’t continue to sin and pray for the grace of God to abound but bimby I honestly can’t handle the shame. Its eating me up. I can’t even tell anyone around me. Bimby I’m at a very bad place!

Anonymous said...

Bimby, this posts brings tears to my eyes.

Anonymous, I know what it means to be a dark place, feeling like a hypocrite, sinning and yet carrying on as normal particularly in church and around other christians. It's tiring and draining. Not a place I'd like to be ever again.

But, there is a way out. You know it already. God is FAITHFUL AND JUST to forgive. God's characters are 'faithful' and 'just'. That means that if God does not forgive you He no longer can be regarded as faithful and just. Do you see what I am getting at? It is not late and I know the shame can be overwhelming but when God forgives you, the only thing that will matter in your life is what He says and What He does. And you know anything He does will be for your good. That's the kind of God we serve.

Get up. Go to God as you are. That's what I did. I was in a relationship where I was somewhat faithful to God and then I fell, not even with my partner but with somebody else. I can tell you one thing, God restored me. I hit a low point, had suicidal thoughts and 1 word always came to me 'Catastrophe' BUT I cried out to God, asked Him to deliver me...and He did...and He took me away from the second person and He chastised and still is chastising me but He has also restored order to my life. He has restored peace, I can now laugh with Him in the mornings and He keeps threatening to bless me. Lol.

Go to God. Your parents, church, friends may shun you, God doesn't. Getting you back into His arms is His promary assignment right now. He is waiting for you. It won't be easy, it will be a day at a time but it will happen. God loves you too much to lose you. Don't worry about how you'll get out of the situation, just go to Him. He is waiting. He did it for me, he'll do it for you.

I hope this helps.

God bless.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous, I am soo sorry, I read this late... I havent even read it yet, i just felt i had to apologise first for not responding

Anonymous said...

becuase I am at work now, I wont respond the way I ought to.

Anonymous, I am going to add u in my prayers.. as daughter of Zion has wisely said, God is more than faithful to heal/ forgive u..

please allow me to get home and reply to this post properly.

God bless u all!

Anonymous said...

Dear anonymous,

I actually pondered over this last night, and as i laid down to sleep, a message kept comming to me, which I have no doubt in my heart that its from God. The message was one of love, and I kept hearing, ' tell her I love her'. I have no doubt in my heart that God loves you so much. It was not a co-incidence that you stumbled accross this and read it at a time when you were feeling so down.

As a Chirstian who has also faced many challenges, I know it is not a good thing to feel so dejected. Please follow/ listen to the advice that daughter of Zion kindly laid down. If you have not yet commited abortion, please think about it well. Dont do it. There are other options... I know it is easier said than done, but please, my sister, I am begging you ( if it is not too late), dont terminate another destiny. You may think that everyone will point fingers @ you and shame you. No one is sinless. He who is without sin should cast the first stone. What should matter to you now is what God thinks. Go back to him, ask him for forgivness ( i usually cry to him for Mercy, rather than forgiveness, but they both work hand in hand).. and ask him to lead you to where you can find help. It may be rough for you at first, but iif you do right BY GOD, and by GOD alone, HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. He said I should tell you he loves you. I have delivered the message. I pray that God will see you through. I pray that as He forgives you, that you will FORGIVE YOURSELF... and come out of the depressed feelings.. I pray that the JOY of GOD that Passes all understanding will envelope you..

if you want to take it more off line ( please I am no counsellor, and I am even a struggling christian... but I can always be a listening ear and prayer partner).. email me @ bimbyladsblog@yahoo.com... you can use an anonymous email addy too...

God bless u!

Anonymous said...

Thanks a lot DOZ, and Bimby. Thanks so much, may the grace and mercies of God never depart from your dwelling.

DOZ thanks for sharing your story with us. I asked God for mercy, the grace to live above sin, the strenght and discipline to put my flesh to subjection(thats where i struggle on a daily basis)and true repentance.

I'm trying so hard to find happiness with and by myself. It has not been easy at all. i bought a lot of books and movies and try so hard to occupy my mind constantly so i don't think to much. i'll send you an email bimby.

Thanks soo much for caring. i truly appreciate it

Oyinkansola said...

This is very true
Sometimes when things get tough, we just give up
Not realising there is a father up there, who is willing to do some much for us just by us trusting in me

Anonymous said...

BimByLads,I know this is more than a year after but I just want to let you know that I was blessed reading this today.
It's actually my anxiety that made me get to this blog.I'm supposed to be reading for my exams o! Anyway, I just want to say this to anyone else who may be in anonymous 1's position - God is always there waiting for you no matter how much you've messed up. Abortion is not the best option.
I've been there before but I thank God he helped me through it all.It wasn't easy though.I have a very beautiful baby that people say things like they don't believe I'm the mother cos she's just too beautiful lol! I could have aborted that wonderful gift of God.My parents forgave me and are even sponsoring my 2nd degree and it brought my sisters closer to God.'AND WE KNOW THAT ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD TO THEM THAT LOVE GOD, TO THEM WHO ARE THE CALLED ACCORDING TO HIS PURPOSE'.This is not my blog so got to stop here....

BiMbyLaDs** said...

@ anon above, hm! the spirit of God never fails. I usually wouldnt check comments one year on, but God led me to this today! thanks for sharing, and God bless u!

Hawt said...

Hey Bimby, i just came across ur blog,i knew bout the other one but not this.
Just read this piece and my eyes are filled with tears,my hand is covering my mouth cos i'm worried i might just start balling my eyes out and wake everyone up.
I'm positive God brought me here today,it's 2.00am on this side of the planet and i was just about to go to bed,when i stumbled across ur blog.I believe it goes to show that God's word are new every sec,min,hour and day.You wrote this piece like exactly a year ago,and here i am,far away in Australia reading this and deeply moved to trust God the more.I'm at a stage in my life now,where my relationship with God is quite shaky,and reading this piece has encouraged me that his love never fails.
God Bless.
~Jay~